Just look at this beautiful little girl! I recently became a sponsor to sweet Elise and my heart is filled with joy! Elise is an orphan with special needs at the New Day Foster Home in Beijing, China.
I thought and prayed long over this decision (see my 'story' below), and when I saw Elise's sweet smile, I immediately chose her to sponsor. It wasn't until after I signed up and made my payment that I looked at her background. I was amazed to read that she was born with bladder problems. I, myself had bladder issues when I was a baby/child, was hospitalized and underwent a few surgeries during my childhood years. Imagine my surprise that we shared a similar medical problem (my bladder issues where not at all as serious as Elise's). But, this was most definitely meant to be - amazing how God brought this precious little girl into my life! I just cried and cried when I read Elise's background and am crying as I write this! Oh how I wish I could hold her, hug her, love her!
Some background information on Elise:
Elise was born February 8, 2008. Two days later she was abandoned at the gate of the local orphanage. She was diagnosed with bladder extrophia and was immediately taken to the local hospital for treatment. They were unable to handle her case so she was transferred to the hospital in a larger city. This hospital was unable to do her surgery so we received a request from the orphanage for help. On May 5, 2008 little Elise arrived in Beijing. The hospitals in Beijing were also unable to treat her, so she went to Hong Kong for treatment in September. The treatment was a success, and now she is recovering from the procedures. She is a beautiful little girl with a bright personality, and we are looking forward to seeing her grow and develop!
I do not believe I have ever shared my 'story' of China adoption here on my blog, but it is so very dear to me and something I do not share often. Most of you know I adore little girls and yearn so for one in my life. I love my 3 sons immensely and am blessed beyond measure being a mother to them - all 3 - wonderful, healthy boys! But, not having a daughter has always tugged on my heart. I am quite girlie-girl myself (!!) and not having a girl to share this with is hard! God sure does have a sense of humor ;).
Years ago, before I finally became pregnant with Griff, who was a fertility baby and blessed out family after 7 years of waiting, I (we, my husband and I) started the process for adoption in China. I had always wanted to adopt from China for as long as I can remember. I attended seminars, chose an adoption agency, and started the paper work. We were informed that as parents of our own birth children, we were not eligible for a healthyy baby girl (the laws have since changed). My husband and I had to make the very difficult decision that a special needs child would not be the right choice for us at that time. I look back now with such regrets and wish more than anything that we could have given one of these special children a home.
So, by becoming a sponsor to this darling little girl, Elise, I hope to make a little difference in her life ... and I would give anything to able bring her into my home.
To read more about Elise and the other children at the New Day Foster Home, you can visit the site and/or the blog.
I also want to add, I was hesitant to share my adoption story. Our decision as a family is a very personal one with much more involved. I hope no one passes judgement on to me.
Thank You!
xoxo
